Sorry for your situation MOS. I will just chime in to supportively suggest you start the path of Self-Improvement and relinquish control over her.

Either way you'll better yourself, and either you'll find that you're becoming more equipped to survive this or you'll make yourself more attractive to her, or hopefully both.

This is a very helpful place to vent your thoughts and get some feedback.


Age: 28
Wife's Age: 28
Relationship: 10 Years (dated on and off)
Married: Less than one year
Seperated: 1.75 years, finally served with D 4/30/2011