Our problem 10 years ago was a one nighter with some guy, back then she thought she had to leave me for being unfaithful this time is different. We made it through that and I totally believe her, she doesn't want to hurt me like that again, she just wants to be happy. She works in a 2 women office and then is a home body and doesn't go out. When she tells me there is no om she is sincere. We use to fall in a funk every few years but it always worked out, now its been a long long time and she says shes tired and can't do it anymore.
