Leaving the Land of Insanity...

[mishka422]

So on the nights he has the kids, his responsibilities include bringing them home and putting them to bed.

Ahh...forgot about the whole housing issue with him. Yes, you're right then. As long as he has no real home to keep them at then he should be responsible for getting them to bed on the nights he should have them so you don't have to be home.

Of course, if he is dragging his feet getting that house ready so that he can keep the contact with you, then that is unacceptable.