WAW has just picked the kids up as my shifts are nights for this week. This means that the boys have to sleep in the same bed as my WAW, in the spare room full of boxes and crap at her brothers place. Whilst the EA sleeps on the couch downstairs.
My WAW has just suggested that she may sleep over at the family home whilst I am on nights. But she isn't sure as it would/may confuse the boys. Stupid WAW asked my opinion. I mean what does she think I would answer with -d'oh sorry love I think it is a terrible idea or mmmmmmm, I don't think it would confuse the kids and it would avoid the house/bed swapping for them - and they could sleep in their own beds, and my WAW would be away from the EA.....or would she - to find out I would just ask the kids.
I have to take this as a baby step forward in trying to get her into the family home again, and give me more opportunity to show how I really trying to make things work. But there again, she may just be dangling this in front of me to get a reaction - my gut feeling is that this isn't the case.
I always believed that the kids would be the reason for her to enter the family home again - I only hope, and pray, that this may be the opportunity.
The WAW has never mentioned about coming home at all during her walkout. So this has to be a positive movement.
Mind you, she is only thinking about it....., but even this is a baby step in the right direction.
Today is the high, tomorrow will be the low I am sure.
Perhaps this is what all the tears were over during this weekend for her. Something has possibly hit home.
She went to a family 40th birthday party for her brother at the weekend - I am fairly sure that the EA attended in my place.
And this makes me so angry!!!!
But my WAW has admitted that she felt uncomfortable all night as I wasn't there.
'don't believe 90% of what you hear and 50% of what you see' applies here.
Regards, Gyn.
Is anyone reading this? Any comments...?
Cause all of the stars, Have faded away, Just try not to worry, You'll see them someday. Take what you need, And be on your way and, Stop crying your heart out.
