I agree Cinder...

Just for the newbies,

Her advice can and SHOULD apply to your new relationship with your spouse, once/if they come out MLC.

Only you know how long you can do this...and even then you'll surprise yourself.

Cinder, I am very glad for you and hope only good things come from this.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet