I just want to know what the OW has done/is doing...what else is drawing him to OW and how do I find out/figure it out what is???
Bottom line, she has sex appeal. You have sex appeal also. During the R, you may have turned it off. This is your chance to turn it back on.
Here is what I understand as sex appeal:
Good grooming, dressing nice, acting calm, relaxed and happy.
Self confidence is very sexy. Being needy is NOT.
With that said, you H believes he knows you and wants something unknown and exciting.
The self help section of the book store is one of my regular stops after the bomb.
Two good books: "Teach yourself flirting" "The Art of seduction"
The first post of my thread has a link to the flirting book as well as other books I highly recommend reading.
Long story short, become the most sexually attractive woman you can. Figure out what works. What worked with him in the past does not work now. I know I have sex appeal, it just took lots of reading and practice to find it again.....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
