Example: He had condoms on hand. I am certain they were not bought for me, so in the midst of all of this was a very clear reminder to me that he's been sleeping with someone else. <shrug>
But yes, I think we're in an authentic place and HE is the one who initiated and finally crossed the LM boundary. I purposefully did not seduce him into it.
It's good, and no, no pullbacks and no unwarranted raving.
Me, I'm going out on my lunch to get the ingredients for chicken-corn chowder.
Last edited by Dia; 10/05/0907:09 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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