Don't forget that God is bigger than sand in an hourglass. Could you post over here with a brief intro note and a link to your current thread?
I know I am still on pretty solid ground, at least for now. But this is a crazy ride! My H has never officially brought up the D word and only really hinted at it once or twice months ago. I am sure he still has that in his mind as an option but so far no movement and no hints of such. I think typical of an MLCer he doesn't know what he wants!
Copy--left click and hold at the beginning of what you want to copy. Drag to highlight all that you want to copy. Lift your finger when you have it all highlighted. Then right click and choose copy from the menu.
Then go to where you want to put it, set the cursor and right click and choose paste. It should appear there. Simple
don't worry about the link, we aren't afraid of asking questions.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
Maybe just copy page one and and then a brief summary of what has happened up until now. Actually, if you can figure out how to copy, when you go to your thread, go to the web address at the top and copy that and paste into your new post - that will give you a link people can access.
Go on, start your own thread. I do read yours but its hard to find when I have time to post.
TF,
You do offer good support, just chating to others who are going through what we all are makes such a difference, especially when one is having a tough day.
I also find that in order to reply to others threads, I need to collect my thoughts and actually think of what helped me, I get just as much benefit from replying to others as rambling on my own thread. Takes the focus off me me me (not that you only talk about you)!
I know exactly what you mean about taking the focus of me, me, me! It is easy to get so sucked into our own situations that we can get lost in it - not healthy!
Yet today I feel down. Just venting here. I have actually been doing quite well the past few days, keeping positive, feeling good, etc. I try so hard to not focus on H of course but then he has done some little things the past few days he hasn't done in months and months (positive things) so then I get to thinking . .. then I get slapped in the face with reality again. I feel utterly exhausted today and it is only Monday. I think the emotional stress finally gets to me once in awhile.
Has anyone else noticed their MLCer being extra tired? My H has just seemed drained and exhausted the past week or two, uncharacteristically so. Maybe he is just coming down with something but just keeps saying how tired he is. I can't imagine how he couldn't be just with the work of having to have such tight control over his own little world but hasn't shown that exhaustion before. He seems to function okay at work (I guess) but then crashes. This is the same man who for months pre and post bomb was suriving and even seemed to be thriving on no more than 5 hours of sleep pretty much every night for weeks and weeks on end. He was so manic - scary. The lack of sleep alone would knock anyone loopy!
