Read most of DR, as well as a myriad of other books, which is what brought me here. Wife's complaints are that "shes not happy", but after 2 yrs of counseling et al, realize I cannot make her happy - no one can but her. I believe she wants EAs but is afraid to return to being the "bad person" to everyone as the EA situation became very public.
beleive she is hanging on for the $ and daily support in raising the kids. Needs me but does not love me. She has not worked in 15 yrs and enjoys her days, workouts, etc. too much. Now, when she goes out to party and have freedom, realizes she wants to be 25 again. I stand in her way.
