Leaving the Land of Insanity...

[mishka422]

Why do you need to tell Dan that you can't hang out with him? Actions, not words BBJ, ACTIONS. Just don't. Turn down invitations, make yourself scarce when he's around.

I'm curious though....why is it necessary for Dan to come into your home when he brings the kids home? Why should he have the priviledge of putting them to bed? Yes, the kids want it, but things have to change and that would include his access to the family home.