So, court is on for 1:30pm today & it's not even a blip on my radar. Guess I've gone more towards 'embracing' whatever comes my way.

H did bring over a signed statement that he does not want to proceed with the separating of our case & have our M declared null & void today.

He also issued an invitation for a BBQ Saturday night @ his place. This was the 1st full weekend with S6 since the new visitation orders. Just the thought of going had my stomach twisted.

Last night when he dropped off S6, it was back to asking me when I can give him the response to his offer & all the #'s so he can have it written up by his attorney.

I'm finished reacting to subtle hints & innuendo about what he wants. I don't know if he realizes the M ship is sinking fast.

He may just be making conversation, and it is hard to find something to talk about when you won't be direct to save your life, choosing the topics he does, & tone to go with them, amazes me.

Last night it was S6's school being too "touchy-feely."
"They have way too much parental involvement. They should let the kids stand on their own two feet."

I love this school. It has the best atmosphere of any in my experience.

Still 'holding on to myself' & liking it. (This image pops in my brain when I say that everytime ;-)

Sunny


Date of separation 4/23/07

DB under Warm&Sunny 4/07

married 9 yrs

sons 6yr & 17yr