Hey Bobbi, I really like the approach you are taking now, its like you are drawing proper boundaries and not being yanked around by him.. and what does he do?? He asks where you are going and starts texting you about movies and stuff. God, its true, as soon as you start to switch off from them and REALLY let go, it drives them nuts.

And I must be crazy too, because despite that letter, I still dont think Dan is done with you. I just think he hates himself and feels disgusting and dead inside for the things he has been doing that he alluded to in the letter (porn etc, the twisted dark path or whatever he called it).. and that means he probs cant handle being with ANYONE right now. Not that that helps you of course!

Keep on keepin on bobbi, rooting for you,
Love Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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