HI floyd101, havent seen you before, at my side of the woods, have I? Welcome...!! (effort to use English phrases-LOL)
Yes, assumption about the part of him being in contact with her. But after what has happened the last couple of years, I cant help it, I wouldnt be surprised if they slept together last night
So, this morning, being fed up with this "quiet" phase that isnt going to change, I sent him a note saying what the heck are you doing? Using the same technique again?
His reply was "Maria, isnt there a chance we can get back together again?"
TO which I replied "of course there is (in sarcastic tone). If you stop being in love with her, tell her you want back with me because you love me and not because of other reaons like the kids etc., and most importantly if I feel the man I fought for the last couple of years really loves me and is not seing me as an obligation or "familiarity" then we would have A chance. If the last one was true, the other two would be no issue. But since you cant convince me for any of the above, I guess we dont"
His reply was "I am in no contact with her and I am definitely not in love with her. You've told me to tell her before but since she is really out of my life I cant see how it is important to tell her anything about what I want or would do since it is none of her business. And if you think I dont love you, you are wrong"...
Note: last time we spoke he said he feels he wants/has no problem to share things with me about her and their A, but he wants to keep her out of our life, he doesnt want to tell her anything about me or us. K
