Ah your kids are adorable and funny and are welcome to come stay over here with you anytime! BF was very taken with your son and said, he's a sensitive little boy and very intelligent (he got that right hey).
As for H..its perhaps not surprising? Remember I said though, couldnt you give him a sign you were interested at least to hear him out when he said he wanted you back? Seeing as your reply was no, I want a D, immediately. If I were him, I'd feel you were pretty damn done with me.
You said, I'm not going to tell him how to do it anymore, its up to him. And so I said, could you consider giving him a tiny crack at least, like when he told you he was thinking how to convince you, you ignored it and I said, could you have said "Thanks" or "let me know when you have".. or some opening at all?
I am sorry he has gone very quiet. Yes, perhaps he is speaking to her, but when you told me she phoned him to ask if he was ok with his decision and he said he was fine and she said, fine, ok and put the phone down (apparently?) I felt.. hmm, wait till that REALLY sinks in with her, shes not ok about it at all and is likely to go nuts and want to rake over it with him and give him hell! So maybe he COULD be in contact with her, but I still feel the A for him is over, done, no going back this time.
Why dont you just talk to him? Say you were hoping he WOULD come up with something to convince you, that you need him to pull out the big guns now?? Your sitch isnt the same as Bobbi's.. he said he wanted you back and ow meant nothing to him and you had the choice...but on the face of it, you turned him down flat?
I wish I was back in Greece.. its rubbish here !!!! x
