Married 15 yrs, 3 kids. Wife had multiple EAs 7 yrs ago - 1 for 9 mos. Cried my tears then and made all the ususal mistakes. Spent 2 years living separate but under same roof, lawyers moved slow. When I detached completely, she wanted back in.
After early attempts to rebuild, she stop counseling, trying, and caring. Last 5 yrs of limbo. No EAs but no love. Now wants to end it. "Too many chains"; wants to "be free". On anniversary 4 yrs ago told me to "get it" outside the home; have not had sex in 5+ yrs. Worried about kids, but have placed me last for long time. Still love her but no return. Wants dissolution and mediation. Help?
