Good for you! I think it's hard to not go into Mom-mode. I think most of us become self-less when we have children and we put ourselves on the back burner. As for that hottie coming your way, you'll figure it out when it happens.

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This is my 180 of learning how to not be the person who fixes and sacrifices for this marriage anymore!


I think I can take a lesson or two in this myself but is it anti-db'ing?

Me 37
H 41
2-dd's (2,3)
T-14
M-10
D-Day 6/18/09 (MOW ended their brief "love" affair a few weeks later)
Separated- 7/3/09