Trying to save my M. W not really trying though.

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If we decide to S, I'll definitely be seeing a L before I commit to anything.
There's a good chance my W is trying to get her financial ducks in a row right now. I don't know why else she'd still be around if she was "never in love" and has no hope of things ever getting better.

Switching topics for a moment...What are your opinions on bringing up the principles of DB during MC? I'm trying to prep for tomorrow's MC session & I honestly don't have anything new to say. This week was just like last week. We didn't discuss our R once.

Do I bring up that I'm trying to give her space to do her own thing (180) while I focus on getting my life back together (GAL'ing)? Or should I just continue to do those things w/o "announcing" them to my W? I'm thinking the latter would be the way to go or else she'll think it's all an act.

What are your thoughts?