Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
I wonder if she even remembers are one good talk now five weeks ago where we agreed to talk once a week on the R? I honestly can't imagine now how we'll ever break through this emotional wall.


It's probably for the best that you are not talking about R right now. Who wants to hear from their H/W that they have no desire to work on M once a week???? Hold off for a while on that. She has to break through that wall, you are on the side that cannot be penetrated.


Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
Now, I'm regretting my decision to sign up D10 for swimming. That means two times a week I'll have to see her when I pickup and drop off D10 from practice as well as having to coordinate some swim meets.

If you took those out of the equation, I would only have to see her maybe once every two weeks.


NO REGRETS. This is for your D10 not for you or your W. Always kids first, right? Just focus on D10 and the joy that she will get from swimming and spending time with you : )

Take care! HIW


HIW
M 35
H 37
D 5, D 2
Married 1996
Dating 1992
Met 1988
EA/PA started March 2009
Bomb 6/16/2009
Separated 6/23/2009

"Once you choose hope, anything's possible."