Great to hear that you daughter is coping with the divorce ok.
What is wrong with winter for you? Do you ski or ice skate or compete in curling or hockey? Are you not excited about the winter Olympics? I bet Canada wins a good amount of medals as is usually the case with the host country. I think Vancouver is going to make for a fabulous Olympics - first time the winter Olympics are being held at a coastal city.
I think winter would be an excellent opportunity for you and NGF to curl up together by a cozy fire every once in a while.
I'm getting my mind in Canadian mode. The kids and I are going for 4 days during Thanksgiving to the Vancouver area. I noticed that all the hotels are booked with prices about 4-5 times the norm for the winter Olympics in February. I've also started showing the kids some of the places I may take them this next summer in Alberta.
You sound well grounded in your attitude towards your STBXW. No reason to get into any deep relationship conversations anymore. If you ever get to feeling the need respond, just have this image pop up in your head...