RobX is wise. He has given you great information. Read his words again.

Another wise Dber's(Gypsy) words : "If you know the answer is yes, then pick yes. If you know the answer is no, then pick no. If unsure, pick no". This is directed at the should I move out of the house question. If you are unsure of what you want, wait. determine what YOU want and then take action.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712