I am with you. They do notice when you make REAL AUTHENTIC LASTING changes. Anyone can pull it off for a day or 2. It is when it is consistent that they will start to notice.
I am having to learn how to be consistent which takes work when you are so used to the old way of presenting yourself and your life.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...