I have been there, and I don't think it is wrong. YOu still love your wife, but you are allowed to feel upset and angry about not getting another chance. I heard in a class I took this summer that once you feel angry it takes around 72 hours for those hormones that are released to get out of your system so it will take some time for you to not just feel angry, but that is ok. Being aware of your feelings is good so you can deal with them. You still love your wife. It is just masked by the emotions you are feeling at this moment.
Hope you have a great week!
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