I was just going to add that I surprised mostly myself last night by NOT blowing up and throwing him out immidiately. When I first found out about the PA I literally almost killed myself. But eventually this website helped me gain perspective and that I could view this unemotionally was big surprise to me. I can recognize that he is in replay (last knew OW when he was 16yrs old) and even thought of Snodderlys comments of 'make some popcorn and watch the MLC happen." I feel like I want to say "I know what you are doing, I know why you are doing it, even if you don't." In the past he has denied PA to any direct questioning, but finding the folder there was nothing he could say. That's why I wasn't sure if this was the right time to act and take a stand. It bothers me to just leave it with no comment at all, even if I don't end up asking him to leave.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
