By tough love I was going to tell him that real life included our marriage, our house and our business. That if he came home from vacation it meant that he wanted to work on the Marriage and not see OW any more. If he wanted his fantasy life, then he needed to find a place to live and a new job. I was thinking of saving my self esteem, but I also feel like I would be throwing him into OW's arms. That is the confusing part! Db techniques seemed to be working, except now he's going to spend an entire week with her.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
