As I said, talk through the details with a L. If you don't want to be provocotive, then don't tell your wife and pay cash. ON the other hand, one of the turning points in my sitch was when I told my W I was going to talk to a L and then did.
Was it a good turning point or bad turning point?
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
