Don't know what to think of anything anymore. Here is my update over the weekend.
I got another call yesterday, well message. I didn't answer the phone because for some reason I thought it was going to be a nasty one. He left a message saying he didn't know why I sent loan statements (I do every month), and said he will be paying one of them on the 17th. He said "I don't know what you meant by sending the statements?" So I sent him a text and just said that it was a reminder like they send to me. Then a couple of hours I felt bad so I sent him a voice mail without his phone ringing and just said basically the same thing. And for him to let me know when he does pay it so I don't pay it also.
I had our daughter ask him to take her to her appointment today for her braces because I've missed so much work over this mess. And he is actually taking her, he asked her first what time because he had a Dr. appt. today also. I wonder why he is going to the Dr.'s again. Wish I knew what it was for, he just went in at the end of July for a physical (I'm guessing work sent him)at the end of July. I told D to tell him I said thank you and he text her back your welcome. Don't know if I did the right thing or not. And input would be greatly appreciated.
I know Red that I need to stay strong and have patience but it is so hard.
Just don't know if he is looking to go forward with Divorce and spoke to another lawyer and they told him he needs to pay or why he would be paying after all of this time. His last lawyer I'm sure told him he needed to pay for the stuff that is in both of our names. Just very confused.