Mattie, definitely one advantage to an apartement is no yard upkeep or house maintenance!!!
Jo, I'm not sure he is coming out of his fog...more like he can not believe I have the "nerve" to see someone else. In his warped mind he probably believes I am wrong for moving on after three years. Even if he is coming out of his fog, there has been so much damage done, I could never trust him again. He continues to take OW openly out in public...so I don't see any regret in his actions.
It took me over two years to come to the realiization that I am better off with him...but it such a nice feeling now!!! Yes, I mourn for my old marriage and my intact family, but he has made that impossible. I do not however mourn the fact that he is with her and not me...she won the prize...one I am glad to give up.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
