Sorry about your situation SP. Can't blame you for the anger (not saying anger is wonderful but sometimes good changes can be made out of the energy that anger brings.) I think we all wonder why it's left all on our shoulders to yet again be the patient supportive spouse....meanwhile we have just as many reasons to feel unloved and neglected in our marriage - but we didn't walk away. We are the ones willing to realize marriages go through hard times and it takes 2 to break a marriage.
I can see now that I should have treated my H so, so much better! He did deserve better! But is he blind to the way he also treated me? What H thinks his wife is going to be all sweet and supportive if he drops the romance, touching, and cuts way back on sex? I don't know yet what the future holds but believe me, if we ever get back together I would treat him the way he deserves...and I also would not put up with all the cr#p that I put up with on my end to make the marriage work!
But this is about you...I pray your anger will be turned into some positive actions that will benefit you and your kids - and lead to the peace & happiness you deserve!
