Clinging,

Here's the timeline:

11/00 exW drops bomb
1/01 I discover EA
10/01 exW files for D
7/02 custody settled, I move out
3/03 I buy exW out of the house, move back
2/04 D final

It took so long because exW was unwilling to compromise on anything, so I had no choice but to let the system play out. I got the best settlement possible. It shouldn't have taken this long, but when your spouse is unwilling to meet you halfway, my only choices were to cave or ride it out.


Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage)
W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage)
M4
Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D
W moved out 8/29/09
I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done