Hi SO2,

Found you here. Just keep living your life for you.
If XH shows for his visit and is there when people arrive just let him see that you are happy, outgoing, and full of life. To Bad So Sad for him he had his chance. Make a life for you. You will be fine. Keep getting him out of your thoughts more and more as what he does is his problem and has nothing to do with you.

As far as DD goes you have to know there is no problem there not when he is on the path he is!

Have a fun night.

JAK


You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez