Sandi, Puppy, please chime in. I had a total spiral out of control last night. We had come off of a great weekend and ended with a nice bottle of wine and a movie last night. Well part of the movie had a major love scene and I lost it. I cried and said how could you have done this to us and he kept saying he was so sorry and what could he do and that he wasn't going anywhere and he loved me, but I asked questions I should've NEVER asked about the sex they had and he is being very honest now and so he answered everything I asked and now that ugly pit is back in my stomach and he was totally wrecked last night. He couldn't hold me which was what I needed. He said he felt sick to his stomach. I told him I loved him, but hated what he did and he said he hated it too but doesn't know how to fix this now. He says we will get through this. How do I stop this from ever happening again? I really have nothing else to ask about the A I just want to start healing the problems in the marriage. I can't have another night like last night, but how did I know a stupid movie would set me off like that? Are there going to be random things that set me off? How do I keep it under control?
