I don't think that sharing the docs was a good thing. If you head (or gut or whatever) is telling you no, minimally sit on it for at least 24 hrs (personally I opt for 48 if at all possible).
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but would never mention how I took the kids to there soccer games, made breakfast, lunch, and dinner for everyone, got homework done, got the kids bathed, got the groceries done, etc.....
I have to comment on this from my perspective. She may not have commented b/c it's part of everyday stuff that needs to happen, so she didn't think it was a big deal that you did it. I can count on one hand how many times my H ever commented or thanked me for doing any of this stuff and I don't think he's unusual or unappreciative.
I read a blurb when my D17 was a baby that most men carry a child with their dominant arm b/c carry the baby is work. Most women carry with their non-dominant arm so they can work while holding them.
