Have an affair!! LOL. Can't believe people would offer that as a solution, Oz. Even my H said that if he had his time over again he would not have taken the path he did.
After my hospital stay I wrote H a card to thank him for bringing the kids to visit, esp on D's birthday. (He organised a cake for her and brought it to the hospital for us all to share). I then decided not to send it. Last week I finally finished all my thankyous and reconsidered the card to H. I changed my mind, thinking that I should acknowledge any positive actions on his part. I posted it the other night along with the rest and forgot all about it. Today I got a text from H to thank me for the card.
