Hey Julia, I thought about you when I was away! I wondered if you would come to the 'end of the road' with your H and make this decision, as astrologically.. well I wont bore you, but it signalled endings and new beginnings one way or another. I feel you are doing the right thing and like you said, at your right timing. I suspect he will be trite and nice about it and not contest your reasons for D and hopefully make things easier for you in regards to the process. I imagine you feel disappointed at how things turned out, but like everyone says, wonderful things await you and you have no reason to reproach yourself. Your H has behaved very badly indeed and he will have to square that in himself somehow and always have to live with the knowledge he did wrong by you. Hugs! Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread