Thank you ladies and huge huglets Nell, your so right I did need a 2x4 up the head, guess what you said was on the button, the one thing that made winning sour was that I wanted to come and be the returning champion to my H, and although he was very congratulating it wasnt enough..

I have no intention of contacting my family the least the better with that lot! I stick to the occasional "how are you doing phone call" once a month.

It is one of the hard parts of being no-contacty that we dont ask what they are doing, so Mr Rabbit may well have a perfectly good reason for wanting more time and may well have been itching for me to ask about it but I did manage to DB my way through on that point..

Need an action plan, if he does come out wednesday Im going out all dolled up, and thursday I have tap so I can pull the no thanks Im too tired stunt if he gets "handy harry" Im going to back off and step behind my boundaries, it wasnt like he wasnt warned last week I would.. Need to play it cool, no words of affirmation regarding love from Mr Rabbit, no hot loving from Mrs Rabbit..

Cant remember who asked but I won a red rossette & trophy for horse riding, a one day event is a dressage test, show jumping and cross country. I have a beautiful irish horse who is referred to on the board as madam!

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!