It's MY life now!!!........

[Silent Chrleader]

Had a snafu with S18 tonight. Tried to call STBXH for help/support, but he wasn't answering. Left him a ticked-off voice mail (not really nasty, but obviously perturbed). He called back and was really condescending and said he wasn't "obligated" to be available to me anymore, but said that he doesn't deliberately "blow me off" if I call (which I don't believe).

In the end, I did say I was sorry for the anger (which I am), but I also told him that I really felt it disrespectful that he doesn't give me address or phone number. I also told him that I was really coming to see that he never respected me and that he was never the man I thought he was. He of course had nothing to say about that.

We ironed out our issues though and I am moving on. I had a good talk with S18 (I hope). He was apologetic and didn't get angry back at me (which he would have in the past), so I hope that is a step in the right direction. I asked him if he wanted to go live with his Dad and he absolutely didn't want that.....

Onward and, hopefully, upward!