"Would you men out there please be willing to share with us women what YOUR equivalent to these small, but thoughtful gestures is"

It's a strange thing, but I'm realizing I want many of the same things W has wanted and STILL thinks that I don't.

Kisses/hugs for no reason.

Love notes.

Cuddling on the couch.

Surprise phone calls to say I love you.

Really simple stuff. Just her going out of her way to make me feel important.


~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)