Old "newbie" needs help FAST!!! Please respond!!

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Well Gina B, I am glad you are doing so well with the wight issues. I know your daughter would be proud of you know matter what.

Today was a bad day Gina. I can finally detach. My W was away this weekend. Waiting the whole weekend for answer if she was going to Retrouville. I finally get a text that she sold her first house as a realtor and she needed me to be home by 6 tomorrow. Nothing mentioned about us. I responded with an OK. She responded with I am not going to retrouville and that she wants a divorce. She said you will never support me with anything.

Gina, How many times are they going to be mean to us, then they want us to be happy for them? I just couldn't say congratulations..All I needed was a call to say I want to go to retrouville. Instead I guess I just gave her an excuse to not go. She said that she was going to go if I would have been happy for her. Maybe I knew deep down that she didn't want to go. That I just gave her the out because I didn't want to be led on anymore. I wanted the pain to end. When I went to go pick up the kids tonight after our talk(where she didn't even cry), they saw me sad, they started to cry. So it was a horrible night. They kept asking my wife and I if we were getting a divorce. The pain is just now begining for my children. Their little faces with the pain I saw tonight is almost too much to bear. It is really over. And by the way, she canclled retroville with a text. She couldn't even call me.