Funny thing is that I am VERY close to my boy. This was the first Saturday in nearly a year that wasn't spent with him. I've been home to tuck him in nearly every night. I think she was reaching for a reason. She was upset seeing me GAL and couldn't complain about me being out without sounding like a hipocrite. Months back she was quite the rolling stone. S and I went to every event and venue in town. She missed out because she refused to go or was hung over. (she hasn't been this way in a number of months)
I don't think she has had any thought of what being separated would really look like. It sounds like it has just been seen as the magic pill to happiness. She honestly thought we'd have two houses and she could make all of her decisions without having to consider anyone else (me).
My boy and I spent some time together todah. Played with the dog and watched a dvd in our basement theater.
W has been REALLY affectionate throughout the day. She pulled me into the bedroom three times! (she didn't have to pull too hard as I wasn't fighting)
Tomorrow will be interesting. I'll e sure to keep it light hearted.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.