Lola,
I saw her last on our 4th anniversary, August 19th. She spent a month in upstate New York after that. Isn't that where you are?

I shook things up quite a bit, by telling her she couldn't control who I talk to any more. So, that didn't work so well. I just read a great blog post by MWD, trying to figure out how it applies to my sitch:

http://divorcebusting.wordpress.com/2009/09/28/cheeseless-tunnels/

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK