I know how hard it is not to try to read something into this new development, but you'll be so much better off if you don't..either way.
Dragging his feet? Probably so. But I also know that mine tried on the rare occasions he suggested we meet, tried to emotionally manipulate me into making a decision one way or another on certain things. Of course, most times I fell for it, and learned later not to meet with him alone..or just let my lawyer deal with his lawyer. I think most WAS MLCers know that our feelings for them are far from over...and they can/will at times use that to get their own way, whether it's an emotional, materialistic or financial advantage for them.
They may in MLC, but they sure ain't past being very conniving and manipulative...especially if there's another person involved, and they're secretly helping to plot your spouses words/actions with you.
I'm not saying this is what your H is doing, don't get me wrong. Just keep that new, independent person you're becoming independent from H when it comes to making decisions. Do what is right for YOU at this time. If he ever comes out of this, there will be plenty of time for the two of you to work on things that will benefit you BOTH.
Good luck and take care..keep that chin up
Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible
