How did I get here?

[wanttobebetter]

Oh boy, she just called me. She is really breaking down....saying how sick she is, how she needs help, "How can you forgive the unforgivable?", etc. Never have seen her like this. I mean totally messed up.

I was strong for her and reallly listened..we had to end the call because the kids needed to get to bed. I left the door open for her to call back.....