I will see W on Tuesday for the first time since she bolted Friday. She mentioned something about us all going out to dinner. Because I have the kids, I will do it if they want. If it was just me, the answer would be "love to, but i have have something going on."
Now let's think this through. She wants to have dinner with y'all while you have the children. When folks D, when one parent has the children, the other one misses the children. That's the fact, Jack! Both of you need to face this reality. Unless this is a special event for the children (birthday, lost a tooth, potty trained, driver's license), I suggest you think that through before you agree to this dinner. I think you have plans already with the kids. But thanks for asking W! One of the irons you have in the fire right now is to show your wife the reality of what she is pursuing.
What do you think? Greek PS - you're doing great!
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