DID XH M OW or not??

[peacetoday]

well XH remains sober
he seems to be more available for kids than Ive seen in a long time

He is answering phone and calling back promply
yestaerday, he spent day with D 14.. picked her up from beach event
then came to get s8 to spend more time
XH told D14 that he had a GF and gave name of OWwife
he said nothing about his new M
he showed D14 where he lived as they were walkinhg on the beach to get his car
He ofcourse was NOT totally honest with D14 but less secretive than in th past
d14 told Dad Mom was dating too
XH said IM happy for her

so I felt angry when D14 told me all this
First of all, XH makes his new wife sound so innocent
like they just met and what a great person she is
she is 28, a homewrecker,smoker, drinker and a child abandomer
we dont smoke
so I have mixed feelings here
How can I let my sweet 14 D meet this b*tch..not knowing the truth
How can I let go of all this so I can really move on
its obvious xh made his choice
and still he appears that it was the right one
I may be baffled for the rest of my life

But
If xh stays sober, tht will help so I dont want to create any extra tension right now
I will talk to my mentors and let go
peace
I could never go back anyway