GIMA, this is good news. I am so excited to hear that things are moving in the right direction. Too often I take your time up with my issues and we don't get a chance to talk about where you all are. I think the most important part of this is that your feelings are still there. That helps me to think that at some point, my W may come back and those feelings may resurface for me too. Perhaps, them hibernating is just a way for us to protect ourselves from the pain of what we may have been or are going through.
DON'T EVER worry you are taking my time. I would be a hypocrite to come here as a newbie, take everyone's advice and not give back what little I can. And if I can do that for a friend I have known before all this stuff, that's even better.
Whether you realize it or not, you have already made great progress. Keep going, there's still a lot of work to do, but you are on the right path.
