Thanks man, those are great replies, I am exhausted from lack of sleep, but wanted to post back to you. I am going to catch some sleep tonight, then get on these in the morning to have some things written out for myself as I go to mediation tomorrow afternoon.
Tomorrow mediation is about money, he has all my finances and hers, so the plan is supposed to be to work on that. I know some 'ballpark' figures for child support as that is a formula in mass, for custody, realistically your right, it is going to be 30/70 or something like that.
Alimony in this state is so up in the air, the L I have talked to say I may have to pay some, but may get out of it, not really a clear answer, but if were in mediation, I'll see what he says. In reality, if I can reduce strict child care support and supliment with Alimony its better off for me as alimony is tax deductible for me, and WAW has to pay on it.
Thanks again for the awesome post above, I'll be taking notes..
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
