Originally Posted By: tristan
Are you in MC? Have you asked her about it?


I asked about marriage counseling a few weeks ago but she was resistant saying that she doesn't want to hear our same discussions rehashed by a counselor. I did ask W to seek IC and W just did her first therapy session with a psychologist. I hope that it helps her b/c I know that she is confused right now. The only thing that worries me is that she came back saying that the session went well and that she felt "validated". I am still trying to figure out what this means within the context of our sitch.

Do you think it would be a good idea to bring up the MC again? I am concerned that she found one of those "well meaning therapists" discussed in DR.


Me:41
W: 35
Married: 6
Together: 15
Bomb: 08/09
Currently: Investing in me!

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