Has anyone else noticed that sometimes their H or W seems to get all sniffly and sigh...like if you were doing it would mean you're trying to breathe a certain way to keep from crying. H first started doing this a week or so after the bomb - asked him one night if he was okay and he said he just had a little stuffed nose or cold or something. I know he has no cold and he's been doing this for weeks now out of the blue. Sometimes after we have a nice family moment. I don't react or ask anymore if he's okay but was wondering if anyone has noticed this? Does this mean he's feeling what he's doing and is thinking about things or is this him quietly taking steps towards moving out?