H4L I probably made my ex feel this way sometimes as well. Not the extent you are saying but I did make that mistake of bringing those things up to her and the reaction was that we were just not right for each other. Usually people that are so called very responsible use to give them order for themselves and in to a large degree validates their self worth. See I am responsible so I am good!! sort of thinking. I am not sure if you need to change but more of handle it differently so it does not become a recurring issue with you and your H. If it is an issue don't discuss it just do it and if he comments on that is not how he would have done it. Just tell him your right and I am working handling things for myself and it is helping doing it myself. Truth is I am not the best source for advice. I messed up a lost the best person I could have ever had. So take what I say with a grain of salt.
