Hang in there. Dont give the ultimatum. Just chill and get yourself in hand! Try to relax some, your going to make yourself sick!! Take a deep breath, think of white fluffy clouds in a sun-lite blue sky!! Just because he wants a new server dosent mean anything. Ive been looking into NetZero myself but I'M not screwing around! I dont want you to be blind and ignore everything but dont think everything has a motive behind it either. OK?
Another Deep breath! remember those fluffy clouds!
Right now it is to easy to read negative things into ALL his actions. So just sit back and try to be more objective. I KNOW easier said than done. I DO know. Spazing out will solve NOTHING!!!